Cucumber Sandwiches
I was talking to the guy in my life on the telephone the other night, while watching a movie on BET that looked pretty good, when he made a comment about not wanting to be in competition with the television.
I honestly try to live life more than I watch it, it’s a conscious thought, so I certainly didn’t hesitate to snuggle into the blankets and umm put the television on mute.
I still watched for a few minutes, but found not being able to hear the words was really just irritating anyway, so the television went off and I enjoyed the company delivered by the voice on the other end of the line instead.
Quite a long time later, after hanging up, I turned the television back on, as I generally do in my half asleep state, and watched the rest of this movie. It was a great movie. However since I missed quite a bit of it, I don’t know the name, and I’m terrible about remembering actors names, but Queen Latifah played a supporting role, as the movies main female character’s best friend.
The movie was about the history of Hip Hop and it’s direct effect on the lives of both the male and female leads in the movie. The feeling you had the first time you ever heard hip hop, the way that you felt just a little bit cheated when it became main stream, when that something personal, that not every one understood or was involved in was suddenly watered down and ‘popular’.
The male and female leads in this move are life long best friends, they’ve traveled life with one another, they love one another, but it’s going to take some time for them to figure that out.
Well tonight on my way home with my sister and best friend, I was telling them about this movie… and one of my favorite parts of the movie, where the female lead says she “Wants to eat Cucumber Sandwiches with the Crust Cut Off” .. of course that’s an odd line, so I gave them some background, she’s kind of a tomboy, at her best friends (they guy she belongs with) fiance’s wedding she avoids the cucumber fare, and jokes about it with him the next day.
Later when she’s engaged, tells him he’s supposed to be happy for her, like she was happy for him, because she wants to have parties and serve cucumber sandwhiches with the crust cut off too! I thought it was sweet.. anyway..
My sister said that she believes cucumber sandwiches with the crust cut off are probably a white people food. I’ve never eaten cucumber sandwiches with or without the crust cut off, and I’m seriously not about to try one anytime soon.
My best friend teased my sister told her if she wasn’t careful she’d end up as a feature story in my blog, and I did admit, that yes, cucumber sandwiches were going to be mentioned tonight
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The conclusion was that they belived cucumber sandwhiches to be a prissy rich white girl food, but that prissy rich black girls may eat them too…
There really isn’t a point in this post, aside from the odd things that people say… I know my sister didn’t mean anything by her comment, and I suppose some foods are considered cultural.. I ate some a spongy dish made by my Ethiopian friend Sammy, and I’m pretty sure that noone would consider my calling that an Ethiopian food wrong, sooo, maybe I’m just paying to much attention this week.
Sadly though, I have no experience with cucumber sandwiches, so I have no further comment at this time ![]()